“It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary.”
What if what we have been taught is all wrong …If you have been taught that you have to put yourself & your needs on the back burner to ensure everyone & everything is taken care if before it is ok for you to take time for you … If you have ever felt guilty, or been shamed or made to feel guilty for taking time for yourself … If you have ever put your happiness on the back burner … If you have been giving & giving & giving and have nothing left to give … If you have been rescuing, saving, and fixing everyone else and feel depleted, anxious, exhausted, and burnt out, and have no time left for you … Then I wonder if you are functioning from similar points of views that I was functioning from that led me to total burnout, before I finally woke up & turned my life around!! This was my story for the first 35+ years of my life. Watch this weeks YouTube video here:
I was trying to be everything to everyone.https://bit.ly/Book_with_MarciIt is ok to make your happiness a priority … I promise <3 “It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary.” So looking forward to connecting with you soon!I thought that is what every ‘good’ women does, always putting herself last, doesn’t she? That was, until I totally crashed and burned. I got to a place in my life where I had no idea who I was, what I really wanted or what I was even doing here. I was questioning everything. I wanted so badly to be a good wife and a good mother, and to give my children a different life than the one I had known, however, because of my conditioned programming I ran myself ragged to the point that I was so stressed that I couldn’t even be emotionally available to my family, and that hurt my heart so badly. Thank goodness I realized that there was another path available to me. It took a whole lot of bravery to embrace the unknown, however, I am so glad that I chose courage over clutching to what was familiar, or I never would’ve found my true self, or uncovered my inner magic!! What a shame that would’ve been!?! Because of my choices to heal myself, and the discovery of reprogramming my mind, I seriously pinch myself all of the time as to how happy I am & how magical my life has become. I believe there are a lot of women who are living a life that is not true for them, because they have been taught to put their wants, needs & desires on the back burner in order to be pleasing for everyone else, but they don’t even know it because they are believing everything they’ve been taught or shown to believe … Hello anxiety & inauthenticity!!! They have been taught to suppress who they are, thus suppressing their true power & inner magic!! I know this, because I lived it!! A women can create her whole world in whatever way she desires when she remembers who she really is, but how are you supposed to tap into that magic if you never take time to fill your own cup? You are magical, beautiful soul, but you will never have access to the power that exists within you if you keep putting yourself on the back burner. It just doesn’t work that way!! It’s time to make your own rules!! It starts with you truly learning how to honour you, to live your life in such a way that is pleasing to you even if no one else understands, and then a whole new world will become available to you. As a life coach, I witness my clients come fully alive when I help them release the beliefs & conditioned programming that are not resonant with their true authentic self, and how they get their sparkle back when they remember just how magical they really are. If you are struggling with people pleasing, the ‘good girl’ syndrome, shame, guilt, overwhelm, anxiety and all the other ways that keep you disconnected from your magic, let’s talk. I offer a FREE Connect Call to those who are ready to find freedom & fulfilment beyond what they have been programmed to believe. Click on the link to learn more
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Marci is helping thousands of women who are ready to make themselves a priority , find their happy & their voice, reclaim their passion, so they can create a meaningful life they love by using online education, courses, and 1-1 coaching.